When a child passes away the next steps for registration vary depending on the age of the child.
The last thing that expectant and new parents dream of is having to make decisions about a funeral for their child. For many bereaved parents, their child's funeral is the first funeral they have had to think about, and for some it is the first they have ever had to attend. So it be can hard to know what to do and where to begin.
Be rest assured we are here to help and guide you ever step of the way.
When a baby passes away before 24 weeks gestation, there is no registration of death. We shall contact the hospital and arrange for a midwife certificate to be completed. This is then used to allow the committal to take place at the crematorium or burial ground.
The death of a stillborn baby should be registered within 42 days of the stillbirth. Initially the midwife or medical practitioner will issue a medical certificate of stillbirth. This will be sent electronically to the registrars along with your contact details. The registrars will contact you to arrange a face to face appointment and once completed they will issue a certificate for burial or cremation of a stillborn. This document allows the burial or cremation to take place.
If your baby has taken a breath (irrespective of weeks of pregnancy) or your child has lived then registration of death takes place within 5 days of the medical certificate for cause of death being issued.
If your baby has passed away shortly after birth, then registration of birth can take place before registration of death can happen. This is normally completed at the same appointment.
Once the medical certificate for cause of death has been issued by the Doctor / GP, this will be sent electronically to the registrar with your contact details and the registrar will call to arrange a face to face appointment with you. This will normally take place in the district that the death occurred. The certificate for burial or cremation will then be issued by the registrar allowing the funeral to take place
You will be asked to sign the official entry in the register, which you should check thoroughly before you sign
The medical certificate of stillbirth will be have already been electronically sent to the registrars, so you won't have anything to take with you to the appointment
The appointment with the registrar will take approximately 45 minutes
If your baby passes away during pregnancy or shortly after, one of the first questions you are likely to ask is why did your baby pass away?
Sometimes a post-mortem examination can help provide some answers, although often no clear cause is found. A post-mortem may provide other information that could be helpful for future pregnancies and may rule out certain causes. If it is felt that a post-mortem could be helpful, a senior doctor or midwife will discuss this with you and explain the possible benefits.
If you decide to have a full or partial post-mortem, you will be asked to sign a consent form. When the report is available, you will be offered an appointment with a consultant who can explain the results and what these might mean for a future pregnancy.
If your baby or child has passed away, then the Coroner may want some involvement to ascertain the cause of death either by medical records or by a medical examination. They will keep you informed throughout and advise when registration can take place or if there is a reason to open an inquest. This can all sounds scary and should not delay the funeral once this decision has been reached. An inquest means they want to investigate what has happened further to reach a final decision on what the medical cause of death is.
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Following the registration of your loved one's passing and there may be questions of things to think about before arranging their funeral. These pages are there to help and guide you.
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